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		<title>By: DS</title>
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		<dc:creator>DS</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Oct 2007 18:39:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[i]Robin wrote 

  Uh oh. I think I’ve had too much codeine cough syrup.[/i]

You made me choke.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[i]Robin wrote </p>
<p>  Uh oh. I think I’ve had too much codeine cough syrup.[/i]</p>
<p>You made me choke.</p>
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		<title>By: K. Z. Snow</title>
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		<dc:creator>K. Z. Snow</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Oct 2007 05:47:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>All book reviews, whether addressed to somebody in particular or to nobody, are essentially addressed to authors.  The premise will remain the same...so do what you want with the format.  Far as I'm concerned, you both provide some of the most thoughtful evaluations available on the Internet.  Start out with "Dear Masters of the Universe" if you want to; I'll still read what you write!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>All book reviews, whether addressed to somebody in particular or to nobody, are essentially addressed to authors.  The premise will remain the same&#8230;so do what you want with the format.  Far as I&#8217;m concerned, you both provide some of the most thoughtful evaluations available on the Internet.  Start out with &#8220;Dear Masters of the Universe&#8221; if you want to; I&#8217;ll still read what you write!</p>
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		<title>By: Chantal</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chantal</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Oct 2007 04:14:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If it ain't broke, don't fix it.
'Dear author' isn't broken :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If it ain&#8217;t broke, don&#8217;t fix it.<br />
&#8216;Dear author&#8217; isn&#8217;t broken :-)</p>
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		<title>By: che</title>
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		<dc:creator>che</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Oct 2007 03:51:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Personally, I was considering doing a Dear (heroine's name) because I have a rant against the current twit I just finished reading.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Personally, I was considering doing a Dear (heroine&#8217;s name) because I have a rant against the current twit I just finished reading.</p>
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		<title>By: Robin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Robin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Oct 2007 02:48:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;I want to see a “Dear John” letter myself.&lt;/i&gt;


Dear John,
I can’t believe I’m writing this, but we need to break up.  I thought I’d love your latest erotic Viking were-puppy shifter time travel fantasy, especially after being seduced by that Medieval vampiric former priest and his free-flowing holy water.  But no.  It wasn’t the secret were-puppy litter.  And I was even willing to overlook the fact that Brutus was only &lt;i&gt;normally&lt;/i&gt; endowed (where’s my ten inches, dammit!).  What finally pushed me over the edge was the heroine, Florrid.  I can’t believe you made her a &lt;i&gt;real&lt;/i&gt; prostitute!  What’s next, a &lt;i&gt;feminist&lt;/i&gt;?!

Uh oh.  I think I've had too much codeine cough syrup.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>I want to see a “Dear John” letter myself.</i></p>
<p>Dear John,<br />
I can’t believe I’m writing this, but we need to break up.  I thought I’d love your latest erotic Viking were-puppy shifter time travel fantasy, especially after being seduced by that Medieval vampiric former priest and his free-flowing holy water.  But no.  It wasn’t the secret were-puppy litter.  And I was even willing to overlook the fact that Brutus was only <i>normally</i> endowed (where’s my ten inches, dammit!).  What finally pushed me over the edge was the heroine, Florrid.  I can’t believe you made her a <i>real</i> prostitute!  What’s next, a <i>feminist</i>?!</p>
<p>Uh oh.  I think I&#8217;ve had too much codeine cough syrup.</p>
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		<title>By: Laura Vivanco</title>
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		<dc:creator>Laura Vivanco</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Oct 2007 00:04:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Miki, the initial "Dear Mom" letter was &lt;a href="http://dearauthor.com/wordpress/2007/10/09/review-dont-bet-against-me-by-deanna-favre/" rel="nofollow"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt; and then Jane wrote another one in the comments section attached to that post.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Miki, the initial &#8220;Dear Mom&#8221; letter was <a href="http://dearauthor.com/wordpress/2007/10/09/review-dont-bet-against-me-by-deanna-favre/" rel="nofollow">here</a> and then Jane wrote another one in the comments section attached to that post.</p>
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		<title>By: Miki</title>
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		<dc:creator>Miki</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Oct 2007 23:59:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>When did you do a "Dear Mom"?

Seriously. 

In a way, I guess you could say if &lt;i&gt;I&lt;/i&gt; didn't see, it's possible some/many &lt;i&gt;others&lt;/i&gt; wouldn't even notice it either.

Or, it's possible it was for a book genre I don't read, so I skipped that one.  Certainly possible.  I'd like to read it, though, and see what I thought of the different styles.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When did you do a &#8220;Dear Mom&#8221;?</p>
<p>Seriously. </p>
<p>In a way, I guess you could say if <i>I</i> didn&#8217;t see, it&#8217;s possible some/many <i>others</i> wouldn&#8217;t even notice it either.</p>
<p>Or, it&#8217;s possible it was for a book genre I don&#8217;t read, so I skipped that one.  Certainly possible.  I&#8217;d like to read it, though, and see what I thought of the different styles.</p>
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		<title>By: Karen Scott</title>
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		<dc:creator>Karen Scott</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Oct 2007 22:12:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Works for me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Works for me.</p>
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		<title>By: Jane</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Oct 2007 20:19:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;On the other hand, a ‘bad review’ letter to mom *might* run the risk of coming off as too snarky/mean, the humour becoming more important than the meat of the review itself, and the review essentially being viewed more for the bon mots and not for relevant info on the book.&lt;/i&gt;

Yes, I hear what you are saying but I know that we are going to be writing reviews from time to time that might be considered mean for the mere fact that if I read a book and think it is bad, it's really hard to write a serious review.  Robin did a pretty good job of it in her most recent review that I just posted, but I don't know that I could have done that.

Writing a negative review addressed to the author (writing any review to the author) is actually quite difficult because you don't want it to get too personal.  When the review is negative, there is always the possibility that the comments can be taken too personally thus, when I was writing the "dear mom" review, writing it to someone other than the other, I felt more freedom.  

I try never to take into the author's feelings when writing a review because the reviews aren't written for authors (despite the schtick here) and because taking into an author's feelings can really impact  a person's honesty.  I really struggled with the Eve Silver review because I met Eve and she's just a great great person.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>On the other hand, a ‘bad review’ letter to mom *might* run the risk of coming off as too snarky/mean, the humour becoming more important than the meat of the review itself, and the review essentially being viewed more for the bon mots and not for relevant info on the book.</i></p>
<p>Yes, I hear what you are saying but I know that we are going to be writing reviews from time to time that might be considered mean for the mere fact that if I read a book and think it is bad, it&#8217;s really hard to write a serious review.  Robin did a pretty good job of it in her most recent review that I just posted, but I don&#8217;t know that I could have done that.</p>
<p>Writing a negative review addressed to the author (writing any review to the author) is actually quite difficult because you don&#8217;t want it to get too personal.  When the review is negative, there is always the possibility that the comments can be taken too personally thus, when I was writing the &#8220;dear mom&#8221; review, writing it to someone other than the other, I felt more freedom.  </p>
<p>I try never to take into the author&#8217;s feelings when writing a review because the reviews aren&#8217;t written for authors (despite the schtick here) and because taking into an author&#8217;s feelings can really impact  a person&#8217;s honesty.  I really struggled with the Eve Silver review because I met Eve and she&#8217;s just a great great person.</p>
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		<title>By: vanessa jaye</title>
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		<dc:creator>vanessa jaye</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Oct 2007 19:59:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I was more agreeing with Meljean (that Dear Mom comment was really, really funny), but I find myself leaning a bit more towards agreeing with various points Laura has made.  

Dear Specific Person could come across as exclusionary, while Dear Mom might work fine for a 'good' review (in this case I think we'd all be picturing a stereotypical mom, or if not, the little tidbits you dropped in the letter would flesh out the mom in question. Worked for 'Maris' and 'Charlie' all those years...  *g*). 

On the other hand, a 'bad review' letter to mom *might* run the risk of coming off as too snarky/mean, the humour becoming more important than the meat of the review itself, and the review essentially being viewed more for the bon mots and not for relevant info on the book.

Tough call. I think the format would work best for those guilty pleasure books, the ones that are sooo bad, yet you love, love, love them!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was more agreeing with Meljean (that Dear Mom comment was really, really funny), but I find myself leaning a bit more towards agreeing with various points Laura has made.  </p>
<p>Dear Specific Person could come across as exclusionary, while Dear Mom might work fine for a &#8216;good&#8217; review (in this case I think we&#8217;d all be picturing a stereotypical mom, or if not, the little tidbits you dropped in the letter would flesh out the mom in question. Worked for &#8216;Maris&#8217; and &#8216;Charlie&#8217; all those years&#8230;  *g*). </p>
<p>On the other hand, a &#8216;bad review&#8217; letter to mom *might* run the risk of coming off as too snarky/mean, the humour becoming more important than the meat of the review itself, and the review essentially being viewed more for the bon mots and not for relevant info on the book.</p>
<p>Tough call. I think the format would work best for those guilty pleasure books, the ones that are sooo bad, yet you love, love, love them!</p>
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