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REVIEW: All of You by Christina Lee

Dear Ms. Lee,

I’ve been slow to climb on the new adult train. I’ve read a few but I keep running into what I call the Trauma Wall. So much trauma. So many victimized characters. I get that angst is very popular in the genre right now, but I can only read that sort of thing in small doses. Still, I was intrigued by the idea of a virgin hero so I picked up your debut.

all-of-you-leeAvery doesn’t do relationships. One night stands and friends with benefits are more her speed. When a hot tattoo artist, Bennett, moves into the apartment upstairs, she thinks she’s met her next hook up. There’s only one problem. Bennett wants a more lasting relationship with her, and that is the one thing she can’t give him.

Like many NA protagonists, Avery has a traumatized past and the fact that she’s female should give a big clue as to what type of trauma it is. The narrative treated it as this big skeleton in the closet, but it was very obvious what had happened in her past. By the time the details were finally revealed, I was tired of all the skirting around the subject. There’s a fine balance between keeping a secret to heighten tension and just drawing it out needlessly, and I think All of You tips towards the latter.

One thing I did like about the treatment, however, is that there were lasting effects on her behavior. Avery is in complete control of her sexuality. She controls who she sleeps with and when, where, and how it happens. She’s not ashamed of her sexuality and screw anyone who thinks she should be.

Both Avery and Bennett come from similar family backgrounds: no father present while they were growing up and a neglectful mother with a tendency to date terrible men. It gives them common ground. But while that history made Avery not want to form any permanent relationships with men, it made Bennett very cautious and careful about who he has sex with.

I liked that the usual relationship dynamic was flipped. In All of You, the heroine is the one with lots of sexual experience while the hero is a virgin. I thought that reversal was great, and I got what the subversion was trying to accomplish. In other romances, the sexually experienced hero sleeps around indiscriminately until he meets the heroine, and then he stops because he’s met The One. In All of You, a similar thing happens except the gender roles are switched and that’s refreshing. But because Avery is a woman, there’s an aspect to it that’s not present in the male character equivalent. Namely, because of her history and family background, the subtext is that Avery sleeps around because she’s broken. Her own brother even implies it. Like there has to be reason why she sleeps with multiple partners beyond she wants to. And this is where the subversion starts falling apart for me. If a hero can sleep around because he’s alpha and hot, why can’t a heroine sleep around just because she’s alpha and hot? Does she need a traumatic, broken backstory to justify that behavior?

For the most part, Bennett is all right with Avery’s sexual experience but only in a theoretical context. There are a couple times in the novel when he comes face to face with her previous partners and loses it, but I found that reaction believable, sadly. Despite these scenes, I was fine with those depictions because the narrative makes a point to say he has no right to feel that way. Bennett is genuinely sorry he reacted the way he did. The same also goes for Avery. The narrative clearly says she has no right to feel jealous of the girls Bennett talks to because she’s made it clear she wants no relationship with him. She knows and Bennett calls her on it.

The main complaint I have pertains to the subplot involving Avery’s stepfather. The way that played out seemed forced and contrived. It seemed like it was present for the sole purpose of bringing Avery and Bennett together and then once that happened, the set-up required some closure.

I thought All of You was a good portrayal of two people with opposing desires falling in love. They spend a long time negotiating the ins and outs of their relationship. They go from an initial attraction to determining it wouldn’t work because they clearly want different things to trying to be purely platonic (and very much failing). I enjoy reading about evolving relationships and how they change as the people involved get to know one another and in that sense, All of You delivered. B-

My regards,
Jia

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Jia is an avid reader who loves fantasy and young adult novels. She's also currently dipping her toes in the new adult genre but remains unconvinced by the prevalent need for traumatic pasts. Her favorite authors are Michelle West and Jacqueline Carey. YA authors whose works she's enjoyed include Holly Black, Laini Taylor, Ally Carter, and Megan Miranda. Jia's on a neverending quest for novels with diverse casts and multicultural settings. Feel free to email her with recommendations at jia@dearauthor.com!

10 Comments

  1. Dahlia Adler
    Sep 24, 2013 @ 08:22:05

    Was so curious to see which NA Jia would be reviewing and am so excited to see it’s ALL OF YOU! I loved having the experienced/virgin dynamic gender-flipped in this book, and I look forward to the next one!

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  2. Lynn M
    Sep 24, 2013 @ 08:23:15

    What is it with New Adult books and tattoo artist heroes? This would be the third NA title I’ve read about in which the hero is a tattoo artist. Is that the hot trend in today’s job market? Or if you aren’t the artistic type, I guess there’s always becoming a MMA champion, because that also seems to be the go-to gig for college guys these days. Guess my harping on my kids to get As in math, science, English, etc. is wasted – they should be focused on art classes and PE.

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  3. Jia
    Sep 24, 2013 @ 08:30:47

    @Lynn M: LOL! So true. Bennett is actually a traditional artist (canvas work, I mean) but he works as a tattoo artist to earn money.

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  4. EmD
    Sep 24, 2013 @ 08:33:12

    You had me at virgin hero. It’s one of my faves (and rare) but I’ll admit that I tend to stay away from NA because of the angst-fest vibes – or as you stated, the Trauma Wall. I’m adding this one to my TBR list, though. Thanks for your review.

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  5. Jia
    Sep 24, 2013 @ 08:38:17

    @EmD: I would say All of You is emotional but not over-angsty. There’s definitely angst though.

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  6. Jayne
    Sep 24, 2013 @ 13:15:56

    But because Avery is a woman, there’s an aspect to it that’s not present in the male character equivalent. Namely, because of her history and family background, the subtext is that Avery sleeps around because she’s broken. Her own brother even implies it. Like there has to be reason why she sleeps with multiple partners beyond she wants to. And this is where the subversion starts falling apart for me. If a hero can sleep around because he’s alpha and hot, why can’t a heroine sleep around just because she’s alpha and hot? Does she need a traumatic, broken backstory to justify that behavior?

    This. I want a heroine who sleeps with whomever she wishes just because she wishes. We’ve talked about using (I assume it’s the case here) rape or sexual abuse as a characterization and how many of us are tired of it.

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  7. hapax
    Sep 24, 2013 @ 13:51:49

    Arrrrgh. How to balance my “gimme gimme” reaction to Virgin Hero with my “heck no run away” reaction to Tattoo Artist? Especially when it’s an angsty New Adult.

    Trufax: I’ve yet to read an NA that I liked (not that I tried many, mind you, the summary blurbs are usually enough to make me drop them like an aluminum bat left in the sun) but this JUST MIGHT be the one to break the trend…

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  8. Jia
    Sep 24, 2013 @ 14:31:07

    @Jayne: It’s interesting because while past abuse is part of her characterization, a good chunk of it also has to do with her mother and her mother’s failure to protect Avery. That said, it would really be nice if we just had a hot woman unabashedly want to sleep with however many people she wanted.

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  9. Jia
    Sep 24, 2013 @ 14:32:49

    @hapax: You could try a sample? I admit I am the most reluctant NA reader myself but after this, am interested in giving more a try.

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