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	<title>Comments on: Wherein Jane Sends Email to Victoria Laurie&#8217;s Editor</title>
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		<title>By: Marta</title>
		<link>http://dearauthor.com/features/letters-of-opinion/wherein-jane-sends-email-to-victoria-lauries-editor/#comment-202359</link>
		<dc:creator>Marta</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2009 03:41:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>And just as I think this issue has been laid to rest...I just got one of those Webmaster e-mails about Laurie&#039;s newest book.  She of course does not mention all the problems she&#039;s had in the last few years of course, but knowing what I know now, I elected to have myself removed from her mailing list.  I just wonder if she will even see that as a reason for some kind of revenge...

And now she has written a story for children called &quot;The Delphi Oracle.&quot;  Now knowing what her personality is truely like, I&#039;d hate for any child to read one of her books...I&#039;d sooner have them read Stephen King&#039;s work...at least he doesn&#039;t have one of those &quot;author-is-a-psycho&quot; reputations, and really does seem to appreciate his fans...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>And just as I think this issue has been laid to rest&#8230;I just got one of those Webmaster e-mails about Laurie&#8217;s newest book.  She of course does not mention all the problems she&#8217;s had in the last few years of course, but knowing what I know now, I elected to have myself removed from her mailing list.  I just wonder if she will even see that as a reason for some kind of revenge&#8230;</p>
<p>And now she has written a story for children called &#8220;The Delphi Oracle.&#8221;  Now knowing what her personality is truely like, I&#8217;d hate for any child to read one of her books&#8230;I&#8217;d sooner have them read Stephen King&#8217;s work&#8230;at least he doesn&#8217;t have one of those &#8220;author-is-a-psycho&#8221; reputations, and really does seem to appreciate his fans&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: The High Price of Revenge Characters &#171; Tour&#8217;s Books Blog</title>
		<link>http://dearauthor.com/features/letters-of-opinion/wherein-jane-sends-email-to-victoria-lauries-editor/#comment-202128</link>
		<dc:creator>The High Price of Revenge Characters &#171; Tour&#8217;s Books Blog</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 23 May 2009 20:50:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] books by saying she&#8217;d create a character in revenge?Â  To refresh your memory just click on Dear Author and you&#8217;ll find all the interconnected [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Sunny</title>
		<link>http://dearauthor.com/features/letters-of-opinion/wherein-jane-sends-email-to-victoria-lauries-editor/#comment-195691</link>
		<dc:creator>Sunny</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Mar 2009 12:11:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I left a good review for the author&#039;s book and was reading some of the other comments when I stumbled onto the information about the author&#039;s ego being out of control.  

After a quick google I found this information.  I must say I&#039;m appalled.  I cannot believe an author would act that way toward a reviewer.  I&#039;m sure a negative review is not pleasant - but don&#039;t &quot;bite the hand that feeds you&quot;.  If that was not bad enough - sending an email &quot;cease and desist&quot;?????  

I just wrote to Amazon requesting a refund for the purchase.  I&#039;m sure it won&#039;t make a huge dent in the author&#039;s pocket - but it my way of &quot;voting with my feet&quot;.  I certainly will not purchase any more of her work until there is a public apology.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I left a good review for the author&#8217;s book and was reading some of the other comments when I stumbled onto the information about the author&#8217;s ego being out of control.  </p>
<p>After a quick google I found this information.  I must say I&#8217;m appalled.  I cannot believe an author would act that way toward a reviewer.  I&#8217;m sure a negative review is not pleasant &#8211; but don&#8217;t &#8220;bite the hand that feeds you&#8221;.  If that was not bad enough &#8211; sending an email &#8220;cease and desist&#8221;?????  </p>
<p>I just wrote to Amazon requesting a refund for the purchase.  I&#8217;m sure it won&#8217;t make a huge dent in the author&#8217;s pocket &#8211; but it my way of &#8220;voting with my feet&#8221;.  I certainly will not purchase any more of her work until there is a public apology.</p>
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		<title>By: hapax</title>
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		<dc:creator>hapax</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Mar 2009 21:53:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Posting anonymously for reasons that should become obvious:

Holy Mother of God.  I am a professional book reviewer who just received one of VL&#039;s ARCs for review.  I idly Googled her name to see what else she had written.  

I had no idea what kind of mess I could have stepped into, until I read this and the related threads.

Zoinks!  Now I&#039;m terrified.</description>
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<p>Holy Mother of God.  I am a professional book reviewer who just received one of VL&#8217;s ARCs for review.  I idly Googled her name to see what else she had written.  </p>
<p>I had no idea what kind of mess I could have stepped into, until I read this and the related threads.</p>
<p>Zoinks!  Now I&#8217;m terrified.</p>
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		<title>By: Ann Somerville&#8217;s Journal &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Consistency failure</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ann Somerville&#8217;s Journal &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Consistency failure</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jan 2009 00:42:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] we&#8217;re all being a bit mean to Ms Laurie the Psychic with a Broken Crystal Ball. She thinks we should just roll our eyes at her behaviour and that it&#8217;s not worth making a fuss about. Every single respondent to her comment said they disagreed with her, as did I. I said [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] we&#8217;re all being a bit mean to Ms Laurie the Psychic with a Broken Crystal Ball. She thinks we should just roll our eyes at her behaviour and that it&#8217;s not worth making a fuss about. Every single respondent to her comment said they disagreed with her, as did I. I said [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Jerry</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jerry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Sep 2008 17:54:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Pike, spike, schmike, who cares? Like so many writers today the woman just lacks any grace. The world doesn&#039;t revolve around their reaction to a negative comment, and their world shouldn&#039;t come to a mad, screeching halt because they feel a psychological need to retaliate instead of just shaking it off and carrying on like adults.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Pike, spike, schmike, who cares? Like so many writers today the woman just lacks any grace. The world doesn&#8217;t revolve around their reaction to a negative comment, and their world shouldn&#8217;t come to a mad, screeching halt because they feel a psychological need to retaliate instead of just shaking it off and carrying on like adults.</p>
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		<title>By: Cassiopeia</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cassiopeia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Sep 2008 09:31:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So did Dear Author ever hear anything from the Editor?  Is this author still threatening anyone who blogs about her?</description>
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		<title>By: Kathy</title>
		<link>http://dearauthor.com/features/letters-of-opinion/wherein-jane-sends-email-to-victoria-lauries-editor/#comment-171617</link>
		<dc:creator>Kathy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Aug 2008 15:32:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My experience with VL was like Marta&#039;s, until a disagreement arose. I had written to her over the years to say I was a fan of her books &amp; I even had a reading once. I was the one whom she took to task because I didn&#039;t like a book she recommended. She turned it around as though I had criticized her and not the book, and it took a few back &amp; forth blog posts to get her to realize that. It&#039;s sad to watch VL&#039;s meltdown, but I agree with Jane and others who are standing up and speaking out. What VL did is wrong, and it is our responsibility to speak out against this kind of behavior.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My experience with VL was like Marta&#8217;s, until a disagreement arose. I had written to her over the years to say I was a fan of her books &amp; I even had a reading once. I was the one whom she took to task because I didn&#8217;t like a book she recommended. She turned it around as though I had criticized her and not the book, and it took a few back &amp; forth blog posts to get her to realize that. It&#8217;s sad to watch VL&#8217;s meltdown, but I agree with Jane and others who are standing up and speaking out. What VL did is wrong, and it is our responsibility to speak out against this kind of behavior.</p>
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		<title>By: Marta</title>
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		<dc:creator>Marta</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Aug 2008 02:33:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>BTW, CherriDee, I just want to apologize to you for being one of Ms. Laurie&#039;s &quot;rah, rah&quot; group on that particular blog of hers.  I wouldn&#039;t have ever had a chuckle over it had she just left it at that, a rant, a fit, etc.  (I mentioned previously, that as long as she was using a fake name, etc., it seemed like a good idea.)  Now I wish to add, even if she did make up a character out of your screen name, it would have only been amusing if no one you knew recognized it was based on you.  

The way she spoke about you and your critiques, she made it sound as if you had personally attacked her, as a person, the way she actually did you.  I wish now i&#039;d seen for myself, but I read her blog late at night, so didn&#039;t have that much time to go scrolling around the internet, and as she had always acted kindly to me before (first answered an e-mail years ago when she was new), I trusted her to be an actual, nice person.  I am thinking her ego grew too fast for her decency.

I think I might have a little insight into the way she thinks--and frankly, this is kind of frightening--on her rant against my last comment to her, she indicated that basically a person could do anything they wanted--even acts of evil--during their life time because they would face NO Judgement beyond this world.  She didn&#039;t word it quite that way, but if she really believes that, then what is to prompt her to better her behavior if she thinks she won&#039;t be punished for her actions?  In fact, while alive, a person doesn&#039;t have to feel regret or remorse towards the people they have injured.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>BTW, CherriDee, I just want to apologize to you for being one of Ms. Laurie&#8217;s &#8220;rah, rah&#8221; group on that particular blog of hers.  I wouldn&#8217;t have ever had a chuckle over it had she just left it at that, a rant, a fit, etc.  (I mentioned previously, that as long as she was using a fake name, etc., it seemed like a good idea.)  Now I wish to add, even if she did make up a character out of your screen name, it would have only been amusing if no one you knew recognized it was based on you.  </p>
<p>The way she spoke about you and your critiques, she made it sound as if you had personally attacked her, as a person, the way she actually did you.  I wish now i&#8217;d seen for myself, but I read her blog late at night, so didn&#8217;t have that much time to go scrolling around the internet, and as she had always acted kindly to me before (first answered an e-mail years ago when she was new), I trusted her to be an actual, nice person.  I am thinking her ego grew too fast for her decency.</p>
<p>I think I might have a little insight into the way she thinks&#8211;and frankly, this is kind of frightening&#8211;on her rant against my last comment to her, she indicated that basically a person could do anything they wanted&#8211;even acts of evil&#8211;during their life time because they would face NO Judgement beyond this world.  She didn&#8217;t word it quite that way, but if she really believes that, then what is to prompt her to better her behavior if she thinks she won&#8217;t be punished for her actions?  In fact, while alive, a person doesn&#8217;t have to feel regret or remorse towards the people they have injured.</p>
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		<title>By: M</title>
		<link>http://dearauthor.com/features/letters-of-opinion/wherein-jane-sends-email-to-victoria-lauries-editor/#comment-171589</link>
		<dc:creator>M</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Aug 2008 20:22:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just wanted to clarify a bit how the publishing industry works, for those who want the publisher to immediately drop problem authors. The author and the publishing house signed a contract. Unless the author has violated her contract (which, unfortunately, does not cover bad behavior like this, but does cover plagarism, due dates, etc), the publisher is LEGALLY OBLIGATED to publish the books under contract. If this is her first book, she could have several more in the contract, which means they will come out. In fact, if the book is scheduled within the next year, they have covers/cover copy finished and industry catalogues already printed up. Some publishers even work a year and a half to two years in advance. 

Am I saying her behavior is acceptable? Absolutely not. But editors have enough to do without also having to be babysitters. Do we bang our heads against our desk when we hear about things like this? You betcha. Can we do anything other than perhaps put them on the black list when contract renewal time comes up? Nope. 

And a professional editor would never endorse an idea like this to her other authors. Never.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just wanted to clarify a bit how the publishing industry works, for those who want the publisher to immediately drop problem authors. The author and the publishing house signed a contract. Unless the author has violated her contract (which, unfortunately, does not cover bad behavior like this, but does cover plagarism, due dates, etc), the publisher is LEGALLY OBLIGATED to publish the books under contract. If this is her first book, she could have several more in the contract, which means they will come out. In fact, if the book is scheduled within the next year, they have covers/cover copy finished and industry catalogues already printed up. Some publishers even work a year and a half to two years in advance. </p>
<p>Am I saying her behavior is acceptable? Absolutely not. But editors have enough to do without also having to be babysitters. Do we bang our heads against our desk when we hear about things like this? You betcha. Can we do anything other than perhaps put them on the black list when contract renewal time comes up? Nope. </p>
<p>And a professional editor would never endorse an idea like this to her other authors. Never.</p>
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		<title>By: Michael</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michael</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Aug 2008 00:06:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Pike Vs Spike,Charity et al

First let me go on record with saying that Charity is my hero. Having contacted many authors and publishing companies about getting full series on audio for people who have learning or reading disabilities like my wife, I have seen mostly good with a few folks acting rather nasty although none as nasty as VL did.The fact that Charity took a stand when she was frightened showed alot of courage and heart at a time where alot of folks in this world dont. Ive said it in private and Im saying it in public. Now as to the spike and pike thing. I may not be an authour but I do make,customize and sell spears,swords,kives etc. A Pike is a type of spear atleast 7 feet long and extending to around 18 feet. Sitting on one of these was a death called impalement (think Vlad Tepes). A spike is a piece of metal anywhere from a 1/4 of an inch long to around 6 inches long...painful yes...rarely fatal. There is a world of difference between the two folks....in ANY veresion of english.</description>
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<p>First let me go on record with saying that Charity is my hero. Having contacted many authors and publishing companies about getting full series on audio for people who have learning or reading disabilities like my wife, I have seen mostly good with a few folks acting rather nasty although none as nasty as VL did.The fact that Charity took a stand when she was frightened showed alot of courage and heart at a time where alot of folks in this world dont. Ive said it in private and Im saying it in public. Now as to the spike and pike thing. I may not be an authour but I do make,customize and sell spears,swords,kives etc. A Pike is a type of spear atleast 7 feet long and extending to around 18 feet. Sitting on one of these was a death called impalement (think Vlad Tepes). A spike is a piece of metal anywhere from a 1/4 of an inch long to around 6 inches long&#8230;painful yes&#8230;rarely fatal. There is a world of difference between the two folks&#8230;.in ANY veresion of english.</p>
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		<title>By: Ann Somerville</title>
		<link>http://dearauthor.com/features/letters-of-opinion/wherein-jane-sends-email-to-victoria-lauries-editor/#comment-171508</link>
		<dc:creator>Ann Somerville</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Aug 2008 20:06:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Beverly, all I can say is that you have a very strange - and conveniently strange - idea of bullying. If Shirley doesn&#039;t want to engage in spirited debate, and risk being disagreed with, she&#039;d be better staying off line - and so should you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Beverly, all I can say is that you have a very strange &#8211; and conveniently strange &#8211; idea of bullying. If Shirley doesn&#8217;t want to engage in spirited debate, and risk being disagreed with, she&#8217;d be better staying off line &#8211; and so should you.</p>
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		<title>By: Beverly</title>
		<link>http://dearauthor.com/features/letters-of-opinion/wherein-jane-sends-email-to-victoria-lauries-editor/#comment-171476</link>
		<dc:creator>Beverly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Aug 2008 15:17:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ann,

When I said you were bullying, I wasn&#039;t talking about what you said about Laurie (the spike thing), I was talking about your comments to Shirley (including the &quot;any decent person&quot; comment).</description>
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<p>When I said you were bullying, I wasn&#8217;t talking about what you said about Laurie (the spike thing), I was talking about your comments to Shirley (including the &#8220;any decent person&#8221; comment).</p>
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		<title>By: Lynn</title>
		<link>http://dearauthor.com/features/letters-of-opinion/wherein-jane-sends-email-to-victoria-lauries-editor/#comment-171313</link>
		<dc:creator>Lynn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Aug 2008 13:37:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Personally, I&#039;m itching for Monday to get here.  I&#039;m dying of curiosity to see if Jane gets a reply from the editor.  I know she said none was necessary but I can&#039;t see how any reputable editor wouldn&#039;t.  Of course, I actually expect people to conduct themselves in an adult and mature manner so there are times I&#039;m disappointed.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Personally, I&#8217;m itching for Monday to get here.  I&#8217;m dying of curiosity to see if Jane gets a reply from the editor.  I know she said none was necessary but I can&#8217;t see how any reputable editor wouldn&#8217;t.  Of course, I actually expect people to conduct themselves in an adult and mature manner so there are times I&#8217;m disappointed.</p>
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		<title>By: Karen Scott</title>
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		<dc:creator>Karen Scott</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Aug 2008 08:36:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt; However, it&#039;s disingenuous for Shirley and Beverly to pretend that saying someone can go sit on a spike is bullying, and they are no doubt perfectly aware of this. They&#039;re trying to deflect from the basic flaws in Shirley&#039;s original claim.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Don&#039;t die of shock, but I&#039;m about to agree with you again.

Generally speaking, from what I&#039;ve seen, Shirely isn&#039;t usually afraid of pissing people off, and seems to revel in these online dramas, so I have to say, I for one am very surprised by her &lt;em&gt;nice-girls-don&#039;t/woe is VL&lt;/em&gt; stance.

I honestly think Shirley takes pride in being the dissenting voice amongst the masses.  Not necessarily a bad thing, as long as she actually believes what she&#039;s saying.

Going back to VL, she deserves everything she gets, and the more people learn about her antics, the better, as far as I&#039;m concerned.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p> However, it&#39;s disingenuous for Shirley and Beverly to pretend that saying someone can go sit on a spike is bullying, and they are no doubt perfectly aware of this. They&#39;re trying to deflect from the basic flaws in Shirley&#39;s original claim.</p></blockquote>
<p>Don&#8217;t die of shock, but I&#8217;m about to agree with you again.</p>
<p>Generally speaking, from what I&#8217;ve seen, Shirely isn&#8217;t usually afraid of pissing people off, and seems to revel in these online dramas, so I have to say, I for one am very surprised by her <em>nice-girls-don&#8217;t/woe is VL</em> stance.</p>
<p>I honestly think Shirley takes pride in being the dissenting voice amongst the masses.  Not necessarily a bad thing, as long as she actually believes what she&#8217;s saying.</p>
<p>Going back to VL, she deserves everything she gets, and the more people learn about her antics, the better, as far as I&#8217;m concerned.</p>
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		<title>By: Ann Somerville</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ann Somerville</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Aug 2008 06:47:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Janine et al:
Saying someone can sit on a &lt;em&gt;spike&lt;/em&gt; (a thin, pointed piece of metal, wood, or another rigid material) is not the same thing as calling for them to be put on a &lt;em&gt;pike&lt;/em&gt; (an infantry weapon with a pointed steel or iron head on a long wooden shaft.) The first is a more polite way of saying someone, whose opinion is not valuable to you, can shove that opinion up their arse, and the other is suggesting the person should be murdered by impalement.

A spike is not a tack (we call them tacks too) - a spike is any short, sharp pointy thing, even on a graph. 

However, it&#039;s disingenuous for Shirley and Beverly to pretend that saying someone can go sit on a spike is bullying, and they are no doubt perfectly aware of this. They&#039;re trying to deflect from the basic flaws in Shirley&#039;s original claim.</description>
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Saying someone can sit on a <em>spike</em> (a thin, pointed piece of metal, wood, or another rigid material) is not the same thing as calling for them to be put on a <em>pike</em> (an infantry weapon with a pointed steel or iron head on a long wooden shaft.) The first is a more polite way of saying someone, whose opinion is not valuable to you, can shove that opinion up their arse, and the other is suggesting the person should be murdered by impalement.</p>
<p>A spike is not a tack (we call them tacks too) &#8211; a spike is any short, sharp pointy thing, even on a graph. </p>
<p>However, it&#8217;s disingenuous for Shirley and Beverly to pretend that saying someone can go sit on a spike is bullying, and they are no doubt perfectly aware of this. They&#8217;re trying to deflect from the basic flaws in Shirley&#8217;s original claim.</p>
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		<title>By: Marta</title>
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		<dc:creator>Marta</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Aug 2008 04:34:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have to add this.  I had not realized that Ms. Laurie had responded to my particual post in the negative manner that she had.  In fact, she had moved onto her next blog.  She mentioned a book signing in the same town where an uncle of mine lives. He is trying to break into the publishing world and since, at that time, I thought VL seemed pretty nice, intelligent, etc., I joked about how nice it would have been if my &quot;uncle, who happens to be a (gasp) lawyer is trying to get a book published&quot; could have gone to the signing.  Or words to those effects.  I can&#039;t remember now how I worded it.  I am wondering now if she got unnerved by my mentioning of my uncle the lawyer (who happens to be a trial lawyer--the kind that sues people.)  I didn&#039;t even think about my words at the time.  We always rib my uncle becuase of the negative points his proffession can make.  Is there a possiblity that for VL this could have been a last straw?  

It wasn&#039;t until after this blog that I decided to see what her thoughts were (if any) on my last blog, and that&#039;s when I saw her reaction.  I tell you what, after that, I decided to distance myself and attempted to remove my e-mail from her website.

And to think, that for days, I felt guilty for hurting her feelings and causing her to think I was judging her...and now I find out about all this...

Again, good luck to you CheriDee and others that have been harrassed.  My only advice in the future, and I guess I am preaching to the choir, but let our words always be kind and civil, even in a critique, so if others come against us, they will have no grounds to accuse of of malice.

Night all.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have to add this.  I had not realized that Ms. Laurie had responded to my particual post in the negative manner that she had.  In fact, she had moved onto her next blog.  She mentioned a book signing in the same town where an uncle of mine lives. He is trying to break into the publishing world and since, at that time, I thought VL seemed pretty nice, intelligent, etc., I joked about how nice it would have been if my &#8220;uncle, who happens to be a (gasp) lawyer is trying to get a book published&#8221; could have gone to the signing.  Or words to those effects.  I can&#8217;t remember now how I worded it.  I am wondering now if she got unnerved by my mentioning of my uncle the lawyer (who happens to be a trial lawyer&#8211;the kind that sues people.)  I didn&#8217;t even think about my words at the time.  We always rib my uncle becuase of the negative points his proffession can make.  Is there a possiblity that for VL this could have been a last straw?  </p>
<p>It wasn&#8217;t until after this blog that I decided to see what her thoughts were (if any) on my last blog, and that&#8217;s when I saw her reaction.  I tell you what, after that, I decided to distance myself and attempted to remove my e-mail from her website.</p>
<p>And to think, that for days, I felt guilty for hurting her feelings and causing her to think I was judging her&#8230;and now I find out about all this&#8230;</p>
<p>Again, good luck to you CheriDee and others that have been harrassed.  My only advice in the future, and I guess I am preaching to the choir, but let our words always be kind and civil, even in a critique, so if others come against us, they will have no grounds to accuse of of malice.</p>
<p>Night all.</p>
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		<title>By: Lynn</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lynn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Aug 2008 00:32:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>*SNORT*</description>
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		<title>By: Peter Durward Harris</title>
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		<dc:creator>Peter Durward Harris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Aug 2008 22:35:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks to Doreen on the Romance readers forum for finding this

&lt;a href=&quot;http://pickledcupid.blogspot.com/2008/08/authors-death-ruled-act-of-god.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Author&#039;s death ruled an &quot;act of God&quot;&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks to Doreen on the Romance readers forum for finding this</p>
<p><a href="http://pickledcupid.blogspot.com/2008/08/authors-death-ruled-act-of-god.html" rel="nofollow">Author&#8217;s death ruled an &#8220;act of God&#8221;</a></p>
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		<title>By: Jen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Aug 2008 21:25:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>VL once stated on her blog that she got a negative e-mail from a reader. The &quot;I didn&#039;t like this book but I love your other series&quot; letter bothered her so much she had to strike back. If VL reacted like that to a private e-mail, I don&#039;t know if she would have taken a &quot;you&#039;re being a bully, please stop&quot; letter any differently.

I feel for Butterscotch, CheriDee, and Marta. Bad enough to be attacked, but it seems extra awful to have come from a writer you liked.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>VL once stated on her blog that she got a negative e-mail from a reader. The &#8220;I didn&#8217;t like this book but I love your other series&#8221; letter bothered her so much she had to strike back. If VL reacted like that to a private e-mail, I don&#8217;t know if she would have taken a &#8220;you&#8217;re being a bully, please stop&#8221; letter any differently.</p>
<p>I feel for Butterscotch, CheriDee, and Marta. Bad enough to be attacked, but it seems extra awful to have come from a writer you liked.</p>
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