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	<title>Comments on: Romance Isn&#8217;t for Everyone and It Doesn&#8217;t Have to Be</title>
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		<title>By: An interesting week to finally get back online</title>
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		<dc:creator>An interesting week to finally get back online</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Apr 2010 19:27:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] then I get on today and run across an interesting discussion over on Dear Author from yesterday about someone dissing romances. Those types of discussions always fascinate me. Not [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Gale Laure</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gale Laure</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Dec 2009 19:28:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As an author, I would like to say that the world is a big place.  There is room for all of us.  There is room for people who like romance, mystery, suspense and any other genre.  We must all respect that we are all not alike.  We were made to be a little bit different.  

There is even room for people who do not like books at all.  Can you imagine? Lol

Of course, all of this is just my opinion.  Personally, I enjoy a little romance in my life.   But I write romance, mystery, thriller and suspense.  I write these genres because I enjoy these genres.  

I hope we all remember it is a big wide world out there.

GL</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As an author, I would like to say that the world is a big place.  There is room for all of us.  There is room for people who like romance, mystery, suspense and any other genre.  We must all respect that we are all not alike.  We were made to be a little bit different.  </p>
<p>There is even room for people who do not like books at all.  Can you imagine? Lol</p>
<p>Of course, all of this is just my opinion.  Personally, I enjoy a little romance in my life.   But I write romance, mystery, thriller and suspense.  I write these genres because I enjoy these genres.  </p>
<p>I hope we all remember it is a big wide world out there.</p>
<p>GL</p>
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		<title>By: Diana Peterfreund Blog &#124; The Gut Punch Moment</title>
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		<dc:creator>Diana Peterfreund Blog &#124; The Gut Punch Moment</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Jan 2009 06:09:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Stiefvater, who once made waves online with her &#8220;I just don&#8217;t get romance&#8221; post and then a year later sold a big fat [...]</description>
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		<title>By: The Hysterical Reader &#124; Dear Author: Romance Book Reviews, Author Interviews, and Commentary</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Hysterical Reader &#124; Dear Author: Romance Book Reviews, Author Interviews, and Commentary</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Oct 2007 12:24:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] its associated comments achieved mammoth stature by all the ensuing moaning from romance writers. Dear Author &#8220;Hit a nerve, has this subject? &#8221; â€œOh dear, am I being a hysterical young lady? Do [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] its associated comments achieved mammoth stature by all the ensuing moaning from romance writers. Dear Author &#8220;Hit a nerve, has this subject? &#8221; â€œOh dear, am I being a hysterical young lady? Do [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Ann Bruce</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ann Bruce</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Sep 2007 22:19:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Speaking of addictions...

&lt;a href=&quot;http://technology.sympatico.msn.cbc.ca/Some+Americans+giving+up+friends+sex+for+internet+survey/NewsandOpinions/ContentPosting.aspx?isfa=1&amp;newsitemid=tech-internet-activities&amp;feedname=CBC-TECH-SCIENCE&amp;show=False&amp;number=0&amp;showbyline=True&amp;subtitle=&amp;detect=&amp;&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Some Americans are giving up friends and sex for the Internet&lt;/a&gt;

I think DA is contributing to this problem.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Speaking of addictions&#8230;</p>
<p><a href="http://technology.sympatico.msn.cbc.ca/Some+Americans+giving+up+friends+sex+for+internet+survey/NewsandOpinions/ContentPosting.aspx?isfa=1&amp;newsitemid=tech-internet-activities&amp;feedname=CBC-TECH-SCIENCE&amp;show=False&amp;number=0&amp;showbyline=True&amp;subtitle=&amp;detect=&amp;" rel="nofollow">Some Americans are giving up friends and sex for the Internet</a></p>
<p>I think DA is contributing to this problem.</p>
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		<title>By: RfP</title>
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		<dc:creator>RfP</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Sep 2007 19:08:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;i&gt;Ugh. I consider myself a feminist intellectual romance reader, and there&#039;s absolutely no dissonance between those attributes.&lt;/i&gt;

RfP, I hope it&#039;s clear that much of my earlier post was ironic; after all, I don&#039;t only read and write romance, but also teach at university (and cover of my latest release is always up on my office door).&lt;/blockquote&gt;Yes, sorry: my &quot;Ugh&quot; was not directed at you!  It was more a grunt in agreement with you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p><i>Ugh. I consider myself a feminist intellectual romance reader, and there&#39;s absolutely no dissonance between those attributes.</i></p>
<p>RfP, I hope it&#39;s clear that much of my earlier post was ironic; after all, I don&#39;t only read and write romance, but also teach at university (and cover of my latest release is always up on my office door).</p></blockquote>
<p>Yes, sorry: my &#8220;Ugh&#8221; was not directed at you!  It was more a grunt in agreement with you.</p>
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		<title>By: Tracy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tracy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Sep 2007 15:44:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;Gennita, ;) Don&#039;t tempt me. You know how desperate and needy us white, middle-classed romance types are.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Can&#039;t.stop.laughing.  Thank you Shiloh, that was great!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>Gennita, ;) Don&#39;t tempt me. You know how desperate and needy us white, middle-classed romance types are.</p></blockquote>
<p>Can&#8217;t.stop.laughing.  Thank you Shiloh, that was great!</p>
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		<title>By: Stephanie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Stephanie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Sep 2007 15:29:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;&quot;But seriously, my post on FFF was an appeal. Yes, I&#039;m a genre idiot . . .&quot;&lt;/i&gt;

Ms. Stiefvater needs to drop the word &quot;genre&quot; and add an &quot;n&quot; to the article of the last statement. Then she&#039;d have a very accurate self-portrait.

But seriously, I got the unfortunate impression from her original post that she was feeling a bit full of herself, perhaps because of her impending publication, so she pranced over to the FFF community to take a few pot shots at a genre that she thought would be an easy mark and impress the folks there with how &quot;witty&quot; and snarky she could be. If all she had been after was recs, she could have found a more diplomatic way to request them.

It boggles the mind that someone who supposedly makes her living by the written word could have no idea of how she comes across to readers--in this case, smug, condescending, and obnoxious.  If she&#039;s as clueless in her professional writing as she is in her personal correspondence . . . well, that doesn&#039;t augur well for her career.

Besides being rude, her post was also short-sighted. As others have pointed out, romance readers do branch out and read other genres. I know I do--in fact, I went the other way by starting out reading mostly fantasy, then crossing over into mystery and romance, via Christie, Sayers, and the Grand Georgette. Antagonizing a potential readership as Ms. Stiefvater has done seems rather . . . dumb.

Great site, by the way. I&#039;ve lurked for a long time, but I always enjoy the discussions and reviews.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>&#8220;But seriously, my post on FFF was an appeal. Yes, I&#39;m a genre idiot . . .&#8221;</i></p>
<p>Ms. Stiefvater needs to drop the word &#8220;genre&#8221; and add an &#8220;n&#8221; to the article of the last statement. Then she&#8217;d have a very accurate self-portrait.</p>
<p>But seriously, I got the unfortunate impression from her original post that she was feeling a bit full of herself, perhaps because of her impending publication, so she pranced over to the FFF community to take a few pot shots at a genre that she thought would be an easy mark and impress the folks there with how &#8220;witty&#8221; and snarky she could be. If all she had been after was recs, she could have found a more diplomatic way to request them.</p>
<p>It boggles the mind that someone who supposedly makes her living by the written word could have no idea of how she comes across to readers&#8211;in this case, smug, condescending, and obnoxious.  If she&#8217;s as clueless in her professional writing as she is in her personal correspondence . . . well, that doesn&#8217;t augur well for her career.</p>
<p>Besides being rude, her post was also short-sighted. As others have pointed out, romance readers do branch out and read other genres. I know I do&#8211;in fact, I went the other way by starting out reading mostly fantasy, then crossing over into mystery and romance, via Christie, Sayers, and the Grand Georgette. Antagonizing a potential readership as Ms. Stiefvater has done seems rather . . . dumb.</p>
<p>Great site, by the way. I&#8217;ve lurked for a long time, but I always enjoy the discussions and reviews.</p>
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		<title>By: Bev(BB)</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bev(BB)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Sep 2007 15:21:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;What I find so annoying about many of these academic studies as well as about posts like Stiefvater&#039;s, is that people who don&#039;t read and thus don&#039;t know the genre still feel qualified to make judgements about it.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Always. Invariably. And what I&#039;ve observed over the years is how striking it is that most people who make these types of statements truly have no idea what a romance novel actually is. I mean what&#039;s &quot;inside&quot; one. Literally. It&#039;s like it&#039;s worse than that they&#039;re not even sure if there are words in there. In a lot of ways it goes much farther than stereotyping. Sometimes the comments are so far out of touch as to be completely nonsensical and don&#039;t even upset me any more. 

Sometimes, too, I wonder if it has to do with the depth and breath of the genre. Some romance readers honestly don&#039;t haven any concept of what is published as &quot;romance&quot; nowadays. Why should we expect non-converts to?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>What I find so annoying about many of these academic studies as well as about posts like Stiefvater&#39;s, is that people who don&#39;t read and thus don&#39;t know the genre still feel qualified to make judgements about it.</p></blockquote>
<p>Always. Invariably. And what I&#8217;ve observed over the years is how striking it is that most people who make these types of statements truly have no idea what a romance novel actually is. I mean what&#8217;s &#8220;inside&#8221; one. Literally. It&#8217;s like it&#8217;s worse than that they&#8217;re not even sure if there are words in there. In a lot of ways it goes much farther than stereotyping. Sometimes the comments are so far out of touch as to be completely nonsensical and don&#8217;t even upset me any more. </p>
<p>Sometimes, too, I wonder if it has to do with the depth and breath of the genre. Some romance readers honestly don&#8217;t haven any concept of what is published as &#8220;romance&#8221; nowadays. Why should we expect non-converts to?</p>
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		<title>By: Shiloh Walker</title>
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		<dc:creator>Shiloh Walker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Sep 2007 12:54:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt; Ha, you know I&#039;m a hopeless Dear Author addict when, after having driven 400 miles to Charleston, SC, for a workshop, instead of plopping into bed and resting, I&#039;m HERE. &lt;/blockquote&gt;

Oh, I can top that.  Last night was my 6 year old son&#039;s first sleepover/birthday party.  And yet, I&#039;m here instead of escaping to a tub of bubbles with a huge, bottomless glass whine (now that my house is mine again and who cares that it&#039;s only 9am?)  


&lt;blockquote&gt;But hey, it&#039;s not everyday when I&#039;m being romanced by a romance author ;-). Shiloh, you can have me any time, baby&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Gennita, ;)  Don&#039;t tempt me. You know how desperate and needy us white, middle-classed  romance types are.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p> Ha, you know I&#39;m a hopeless Dear Author addict when, after having driven 400 miles to Charleston, SC, for a workshop, instead of plopping into bed and resting, I&#39;m HERE. </p></blockquote>
<p>Oh, I can top that.  Last night was my 6 year old son&#8217;s first sleepover/birthday party.  And yet, I&#8217;m here instead of escaping to a tub of bubbles with a huge, bottomless glass whine (now that my house is mine again and who cares that it&#8217;s only 9am?)  </p>
<blockquote><p>But hey, it&#39;s not everyday when I&#39;m being romanced by a romance author ;-). Shiloh, you can have me any time, baby</p></blockquote>
<p>Gennita, ;)  Don&#8217;t tempt me. You know how desperate and needy us white, middle-classed  romance types are.</p>
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		<title>By: Karen Scott</title>
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		<dc:creator>Karen Scott</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Sep 2007 08:16:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;But seriously, my post on FFF was an appeal. Yes, I&#039;m a genre idiot, it said (or I like to think it said). I am not a romance reader. Every romance I&#039;ve read is because it was a crossover in one of my other genres. Please, oh romance lovers, what do you love, why do you love it, and gimme some titles PLEASE.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

You gotta love the attempt at back-tracking, that&#039;s what I live for whenever these mudslings at the romance genre take place.  Three words for you Mags, stable, door, and horse. 

Incidentally, the use of smileys never fails to rub me the wrong way, especially when used by somebody who&#039;s trying to defend themselves after sticking their foot in a steaming pile of horse shit.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>But seriously, my post on FFF was an appeal. Yes, I&#39;m a genre idiot, it said (or I like to think it said). I am not a romance reader. Every romance I&#39;ve read is because it was a crossover in one of my other genres. Please, oh romance lovers, what do you love, why do you love it, and gimme some titles PLEASE.</p></blockquote>
<p>You gotta love the attempt at back-tracking, that&#8217;s what I live for whenever these mudslings at the romance genre take place.  Three words for you Mags, stable, door, and horse. </p>
<p>Incidentally, the use of smileys never fails to rub me the wrong way, especially when used by somebody who&#8217;s trying to defend themselves after sticking their foot in a steaming pile of horse shit.</p>
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		<title>By: Sandra Schwab</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sandra Schwab</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Sep 2007 07:42:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;Ugh. I consider myself a feminist intellectual romance reader, and there&#039;s absolutely no dissonance between those attributes.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

RfP, I hope it&#039;s clear that much of my earlier post was ironic; after all, I don&#039;t only read and write romance, but also teach at university (and cover of my latest release is always up on my office door). As I said, I consider Radway&#039;s book on romance one of the worst academic studies ever written. Not only doesn&#039;t she have any clue about the genre, she also doesn&#039;t have any clue about how to conduct a questionnaire study. And Reading the Romance is basically that.

What I find so annoying about many of these academic studies as well as about posts like Stiefvater&#039;s, is that people who don&#039;t read and thus don&#039;t know the genre still feel qualified to make judgements about it. At the recent &lt;a href=&quot;http://http://teachmetonight.blogspot.com/2007/07/feminism-popular-culture-conference-1.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Feminism and Popular Culture Conference&lt;/a&gt; in Newcastle I nearly had a fit when one of the presenters of the &lt;a href=&quot;http://teachmetonight.blogspot.com/2007/08/feminism-and-popular-culture-three.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;chick lit panel&lt;/a&gt; compared chick lit novels to romance aka THE Mills&amp;Boon novel and Barbara Cartland (!!!). Later on, she admitted that she hadn&#039;t read a romance novel, but had the &quot;instinctive feeling&quot; that a) romance heroines are all terribly weak creatures because of b) the omniscient narrator in romance.

&quot;There is no omniscient narrator in romance,&quot; I said (growled)

&quot;Oh yes, there is,&quot; she said.

&quot;No, there isn&#039;t.&quot;

&quot;Yes, there is. I&#039;ve read this study and I&#039;ve got this instinctive feeling --&quot;

&quot;THERE IS NO OMNISCIENT NARRATOR IN ROMANCE! I happen to be on the romance panel, I read and write romance, and there is no omniscient narrator in romance!&quot;

I think she finally got my point.... *roll eyes*</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>Ugh. I consider myself a feminist intellectual romance reader, and there&#39;s absolutely no dissonance between those attributes.</p></blockquote>
<p>RfP, I hope it&#8217;s clear that much of my earlier post was ironic; after all, I don&#8217;t only read and write romance, but also teach at university (and cover of my latest release is always up on my office door). As I said, I consider Radway&#8217;s book on romance one of the worst academic studies ever written. Not only doesn&#8217;t she have any clue about the genre, she also doesn&#8217;t have any clue about how to conduct a questionnaire study. And Reading the Romance is basically that.</p>
<p>What I find so annoying about many of these academic studies as well as about posts like Stiefvater&#8217;s, is that people who don&#8217;t read and thus don&#8217;t know the genre still feel qualified to make judgements about it. At the recent <a href="http://http://teachmetonight.blogspot.com/2007/07/feminism-popular-culture-conference-1.html" rel="nofollow">Feminism and Popular Culture Conference</a> in Newcastle I nearly had a fit when one of the presenters of the <a href="http://teachmetonight.blogspot.com/2007/08/feminism-and-popular-culture-three.html" rel="nofollow">chick lit panel</a> compared chick lit novels to romance aka THE Mills&amp;Boon novel and Barbara Cartland (!!!). Later on, she admitted that she hadn&#8217;t read a romance novel, but had the &#8220;instinctive feeling&#8221; that a) romance heroines are all terribly weak creatures because of b) the omniscient narrator in romance.</p>
<p>&#8220;There is no omniscient narrator in romance,&#8221; I said (growled)</p>
<p>&#8220;Oh yes, there is,&#8221; she said.</p>
<p>&#8220;No, there isn&#8217;t.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Yes, there is. I&#8217;ve read this study and I&#8217;ve got this instinctive feeling &#8211;&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;THERE IS NO OMNISCIENT NARRATOR IN ROMANCE! I happen to be on the romance panel, I read and write romance, and there is no omniscient narrator in romance!&#8221;</p>
<p>I think she finally got my point&#8230;. *roll eyes*</p>
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		<title>By: Bev(BB)</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bev(BB)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Sep 2007 03:29:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;This made me cackle for ten minutes. Reading fantasy/scifi with the alien with pointy-ears, vampires without souls, boy wizards, were-something or Messianic figures with super powers doesn&#039;t make me scratch my head and go, â€œGee, the guys I know in real life sure aren&#039;t like THESE CHARACTERS. These guys are unbelievable!â€ 

And can I chime in about the covers with the women wielding a sword wearing practically nothing, with size EEEEEEEEEEEEEEE frontal melons? No? Too mean? Okay.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Wonder if anyone has ever done any research into the appeal of books about neurotic detectives withs tragics pasts who spend their time catching people who murder others ? ? ? That might be an interesting population to stereotype . . . frightening but intriguing all the same. ;p

We won&#039;t even go near horror or suspense. Or those action adventure junkies. Oye.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>This made me cackle for ten minutes. Reading fantasy/scifi with the alien with pointy-ears, vampires without souls, boy wizards, were-something or Messianic figures with super powers doesn&#39;t make me scratch my head and go, â€œGee, the guys I know in real life sure aren&#39;t like THESE CHARACTERS. These guys are unbelievable!â€ </p>
<p>And can I chime in about the covers with the women wielding a sword wearing practically nothing, with size EEEEEEEEEEEEEEE frontal melons? No? Too mean? Okay.</p></blockquote>
<p>Wonder if anyone has ever done any research into the appeal of books about neurotic detectives withs tragics pasts who spend their time catching people who murder others ? ? ? That might be an interesting population to stereotype . . . frightening but intriguing all the same. ;p</p>
<p>We won&#8217;t even go near horror or suspense. Or those action adventure junkies. Oye.</p>
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		<title>By: brwngem</title>
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		<dc:creator>brwngem</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Sep 2007 03:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The constant bashing of the genre and those who read is really boring to me at this point. I love when  someone asks me, â€œYou read that trash?â€ you know, with the sneer and all. The ones who feel that way have probably never read single title and they give off this vibe that maybe I should be ordering my books in plain paper packaging. PUHLEEEZE! 

I proudly flaunt the covers on the subway. Yes that&#039;s me on the 2 train propped against the door with my eyes glued to  the pages . I refuse to cover  the title in shame! No I don&#039;t adjust the book when it&#039;s getting to the steamy part. If you&#039;re shoulder reading (I SAW you) then enjoy! 

I read for ENTERTAINMENT. Like those of you who can&#039;t wait for the next episode of Grey&#039;s Anatomy or Desperate Housewives... this is my escapism. I also happen to read other genre&#039;s just as avidly (I&#039;m a complete Dresden whore!) I&#039;m also a minority, have a degree in English Lit. , vote, pay  my taxes, raise my four children, and go to work every day. Romantic fiction isn&#039;t a dummied down version of fiction. The writers that give us these wonderful worlds  don&#039;t just dump words on a page. In many cases a great deal of research goes into them.  And to them I say THANK YOU!!!  

So whenever I get asked that question, or any variation of it I calmly reply, â€œYep, sure do. How&#039;s that Tolstoy working out?â€</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The constant bashing of the genre and those who read is really boring to me at this point. I love when  someone asks me, â€œYou read that trash?â€ you know, with the sneer and all. The ones who feel that way have probably never read single title and they give off this vibe that maybe I should be ordering my books in plain paper packaging. PUHLEEEZE! </p>
<p>I proudly flaunt the covers on the subway. Yes that&#39;s me on the 2 train propped against the door with my eyes glued to  the pages . I refuse to cover  the title in shame! No I don&#39;t adjust the book when it&#39;s getting to the steamy part. If you&#39;re shoulder reading (I SAW you) then enjoy! </p>
<p>I read for ENTERTAINMENT. Like those of you who can&#39;t wait for the next episode of Grey&#39;s Anatomy or Desperate Housewives&#8230; this is my escapism. I also happen to read other genre&#39;s just as avidly (I&#39;m a complete Dresden whore!) I&#39;m also a minority, have a degree in English Lit. , vote, pay  my taxes, raise my four children, and go to work every day. Romantic fiction isn&#39;t a dummied down version of fiction. The writers that give us these wonderful worlds  don&#39;t just dump words on a page. In many cases a great deal of research goes into them.  And to them I say THANK YOU!!!  </p>
<p>So whenever I get asked that question, or any variation of it I calmly reply, â€œYep, sure do. How&#39;s that Tolstoy working out?â€</p>
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		<title>By: Gennita Low</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gennita Low</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Sep 2007 03:12:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ha, you know I&#039;m a hopeless Dear Author addict when, after having driven 400 miles to Charleston, SC, for a workshop, instead of plopping into bed and resting, I&#039;m HERE.  But hey, it&#039;s not everyday when I&#039;m being romanced by a romance author ;-).  Shiloh, you can have me any time, baby.

Nora: Next big signing, I&#039;m going stand by you, OJ heckler style, except my hat will I say &quot;I love romance people.&quot;  And when you turn to frown at me, I&#039;ll turn the cap over and it will say, &quot;Esp. Nora Roberts.&quot;  Ha. Shameless, I know.  But lady, every time you charge out like a roaring tigress for me and my genre, my heart goes pitter-pat.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ha, you know I&#8217;m a hopeless Dear Author addict when, after having driven 400 miles to Charleston, SC, for a workshop, instead of plopping into bed and resting, I&#8217;m HERE.  But hey, it&#8217;s not everyday when I&#8217;m being romanced by a romance author ;-).  Shiloh, you can have me any time, baby.</p>
<p>Nora: Next big signing, I&#8217;m going stand by you, OJ heckler style, except my hat will I say &#8220;I love romance people.&#8221;  And when you turn to frown at me, I&#8217;ll turn the cap over and it will say, &#8220;Esp. Nora Roberts.&#8221;  Ha. Shameless, I know.  But lady, every time you charge out like a roaring tigress for me and my genre, my heart goes pitter-pat.</p>
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		<title>By: Jane</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Sep 2007 02:51:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think romblogreader should have penned my post as she sums up perfectly how I felt.  To John Levitt, I agree with what you said except for this:

&lt;em&gt;&quot;If you hate a book, fine, but there&#039;s no reason to post about it.&quot; &lt;/em&gt; 

I think it would have been fine if Maggie Stiefvater had said, I read x book and it really didn&#039;t work for me.  Individual criticism is fine, and even important, it&#039;s the swipe at the genre that is discomfiting.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think romblogreader should have penned my post as she sums up perfectly how I felt.  To John Levitt, I agree with what you said except for this:</p>
<p><em>&#8220;If you hate a book, fine, but there&#39;s no reason to post about it.&#8221; </em> </p>
<p>I think it would have been fine if Maggie Stiefvater had said, I read x book and it really didn&#8217;t work for me.  Individual criticism is fine, and even important, it&#8217;s the swipe at the genre that is discomfiting.</p>
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		<title>By: Jackie L.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jackie L.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Sep 2007 01:22:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Michelle, I see the same thing all the time too.  Most of my patients bring Christian literature to read, they want to convert me.  They&#039;re so cute.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Michelle, I see the same thing all the time too.  Most of my patients bring Christian literature to read, they want to convert me.  They&#8217;re so cute.</p>
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		<title>By: Genre Wars, Point of View and Execution &#171; Trivial Pursuits</title>
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		<dc:creator>Genre Wars, Point of View and Execution &#171; Trivial Pursuits</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Sep 2007 01:04:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] I fell in love with Gennita Low&#8217;s comment at Dear Author. Want to read the research I can probably dig up (from the theses section in a varsity library) on [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] I fell in love with Gennita Low&#8217;s comment at Dear Author. Want to read the research I can probably dig up (from the theses section in a varsity library) on [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Michelle</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michelle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Sep 2007 01:04:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey waving at Jackie L, Biochem major, Philosophy minor then med school.  I have had a lot of nice conversations with patients about books.  They are always good icebreakers.  Always fun to enter a room and see them reading a Nora or J.D. Robb.  One interesting thing is usually if someone is reading a mystery, or general fiction they lay the book aside face up;  while if it is a romance book they will lay it face down or stuff it back in their purse.

Anyway some of my thoughts:
Very poor backpeddling.  Either stick to your guns and go out blazing or express abject groveling apologies.
Also most romance readers have loooong memories and are very vocal.  Piss us off at your peril.

Lastly must go look up John Levitt&#039;s book.  I am a sucker for magical dogs or cats.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey waving at Jackie L, Biochem major, Philosophy minor then med school.  I have had a lot of nice conversations with patients about books.  They are always good icebreakers.  Always fun to enter a room and see them reading a Nora or J.D. Robb.  One interesting thing is usually if someone is reading a mystery, or general fiction they lay the book aside face up;  while if it is a romance book they will lay it face down or stuff it back in their purse.</p>
<p>Anyway some of my thoughts:<br />
Very poor backpeddling.  Either stick to your guns and go out blazing or express abject groveling apologies.<br />
Also most romance readers have loooong memories and are very vocal.  Piss us off at your peril.</p>
<p>Lastly must go look up John Levitt&#8217;s book.  I am a sucker for magical dogs or cats.</p>
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		<title>By: Jennifer McKenzie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jennifer McKenzie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Sep 2007 00:58:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;We should be supporting our fellow authors, whether they&#039;re in our genre or not. If you hate a book, fine, but there&#039;s no reason to post about it. That goes double for genre. If you don&#039;t care for romance that&#039;s your prerogative, but there&#039;s not much point in trashing people who do, nor the authors who write it.&lt;/i&gt;

Thank you for seeing the point, John.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>We should be supporting our fellow authors, whether they&#39;re in our genre or not. If you hate a book, fine, but there&#39;s no reason to post about it. That goes double for genre. If you don&#39;t care for romance that&#39;s your prerogative, but there&#39;s not much point in trashing people who do, nor the authors who write it.</i></p>
<p>Thank you for seeing the point, John.</p>
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