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		<title>By: Vochud</title>
		<link>http://dearauthor.com/features/letters-of-opinion/should-authors-reach-out-and-touch-a-reader/#comment-169143</link>
		<dc:creator>Vochud</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Aug 2008 16:54:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There&#039;s value in your article and purpose will tell
you have passion. In order to have effective skills
writing you need to develop a purpose for providing
content and then comes the passion to reach out and
touch.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There&#8217;s value in your article and purpose will tell<br />
you have passion. In order to have effective skills<br />
writing you need to develop a purpose for providing<br />
content and then comes the passion to reach out and<br />
touch.</p>
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		<title>By: Rocky Pacley</title>
		<link>http://dearauthor.com/features/letters-of-opinion/should-authors-reach-out-and-touch-a-reader/#comment-131705</link>
		<dc:creator>Rocky Pacley</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Feb 2008 17:15:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I know that the authors interest is necessary for them to leave comments, I guess long as they are getting the group satisfaction they are happy with that. It would seem quality should matter especially when a comment is warrented.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I know that the authors interest is necessary for them to leave comments, I guess long as they are getting the group satisfaction they are happy with that. It would seem quality should matter especially when a comment is warrented.</p>
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		<title>By: The Good, The Bad and The Unread &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Things that make you go WTF</title>
		<link>http://dearauthor.com/features/letters-of-opinion/should-authors-reach-out-and-touch-a-reader/#comment-25162</link>
		<dc:creator>The Good, The Bad and The Unread &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Things that make you go WTF</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Mar 2007 17:36:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] got me thinking. Yes a strange and scary thing in and of itself. You may recall Jane talked about authors needing to reach out and touch a reader. I sort of went &#8216;uh, no thanks&#8217; on that [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] got me thinking. Yes a strange and scary thing in and of itself. You may recall Jane talked about authors needing to reach out and touch a reader. I sort of went &#8216;uh, no thanks&#8217; on that [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Robert Mitchell</title>
		<link>http://dearauthor.com/features/letters-of-opinion/should-authors-reach-out-and-touch-a-reader/#comment-24783</link>
		<dc:creator>Robert Mitchell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Mar 2007 11:23:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I can see I&#039;m going to have to start reading some of these blogs! After reading this one and the comments my curiosity is aroused.

Up this point I&#039;ve read very few blogs and most of them were military oriented, like Micheal Yon&#039;s. The rest of the time I go to Baen&#039;s Bar and visit the different conferences there which, since I try to read most of them, can take quite a while. But I don&#039;t think it&#039;s quite the same as a blog, is it?

Many of the conferences are Author related and the Authors do hang out there and talk to the fans while others are set up to discuss various subjects like the Tech Manual for research, or Truth vs Pravda for religion related topics, Slush Pile and Slush Comments for aspiring writers to post their latest piece of work and get critiques and comments, Publishers Podium for the publisher to keep in touch with the readers and get feedback on, Feelings for the &quot;Need to get it off my chest&quot; stuff, and a whole bunch more. 

I find that I enjoy being able to interact with the authors, editors, and publishers. Hopefully they find it fun and invigorating as well.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can see I&#8217;m going to have to start reading some of these blogs! After reading this one and the comments my curiosity is aroused.</p>
<p>Up this point I&#8217;ve read very few blogs and most of them were military oriented, like Micheal Yon&#8217;s. The rest of the time I go to Baen&#8217;s Bar and visit the different conferences there which, since I try to read most of them, can take quite a while. But I don&#8217;t think it&#8217;s quite the same as a blog, is it?</p>
<p>Many of the conferences are Author related and the Authors do hang out there and talk to the fans while others are set up to discuss various subjects like the Tech Manual for research, or Truth vs Pravda for religion related topics, Slush Pile and Slush Comments for aspiring writers to post their latest piece of work and get critiques and comments, Publishers Podium for the publisher to keep in touch with the readers and get feedback on, Feelings for the &#8220;Need to get it off my chest&#8221; stuff, and a whole bunch more. </p>
<p>I find that I enjoy being able to interact with the authors, editors, and publishers. Hopefully they find it fun and invigorating as well.</p>
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		<title>By: Carla</title>
		<link>http://dearauthor.com/features/letters-of-opinion/should-authors-reach-out-and-touch-a-reader/#comment-24466</link>
		<dc:creator>Carla</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Mar 2007 21:47:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Coming in way late on the discussion, but it intrigued me. I&#039;m not a writer (well, not a book writer), but a publicist, and a former reviewer and article writer for eight-ish years; most especially active as a Community Leader on ye olde AOL message boards until they did away with the position (got free AOL, don&#039;t ya know, when you couldn&#039;t get it for free. *grin*). I also much preferred the old version of the AOL boards than the newer on-the-web ones.

Personally, I don&#039;t &quot;get&quot; blog land. The only reason I know about this Dear Author blog is because one of &quot;my&quot; authors directed me to it after Janine reviewed her latest release. That&#039;s how I usually come across them - only if directed toward any in particular.

But, I&#039;m old. Like 50. *smile* I&#039;m not very tech savvy, but I do love to gab. Wayyyyyy too much. I&#039;m currently addicted to MySpace and have been a Yahoo groups addict since...well, it seems like forever.

I need a Blog directory or something, I guess; however, it also looks like something else I could become much too addicted to!

I&#039;m wondering if it&#039;s plain old vanilla ignorance on the part of some people, like me? Unless we&#039;re steered in the right direction, we just don&#039;t know it&#039;s there?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Coming in way late on the discussion, but it intrigued me. I&#8217;m not a writer (well, not a book writer), but a publicist, and a former reviewer and article writer for eight-ish years; most especially active as a Community Leader on ye olde AOL message boards until they did away with the position (got free AOL, don&#8217;t ya know, when you couldn&#8217;t get it for free. *grin*). I also much preferred the old version of the AOL boards than the newer on-the-web ones.</p>
<p>Personally, I don&#8217;t &#8220;get&#8221; blog land. The only reason I know about this Dear Author blog is because one of &#8220;my&#8221; authors directed me to it after Janine reviewed her latest release. That&#8217;s how I usually come across them &#8211; only if directed toward any in particular.</p>
<p>But, I&#8217;m old. Like 50. *smile* I&#8217;m not very tech savvy, but I do love to gab. Wayyyyyy too much. I&#8217;m currently addicted to MySpace and have been a Yahoo groups addict since&#8230;well, it seems like forever.</p>
<p>I need a Blog directory or something, I guess; however, it also looks like something else I could become much too addicted to!</p>
<p>I&#8217;m wondering if it&#8217;s plain old vanilla ignorance on the part of some people, like me? Unless we&#8217;re steered in the right direction, we just don&#8217;t know it&#8217;s there?</p>
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		<title>By: Don&#8217;t Undo Someone Else&#8217;s Work at LauraFlorand.com</title>
		<link>http://dearauthor.com/features/letters-of-opinion/should-authors-reach-out-and-touch-a-reader/#comment-24421</link>
		<dc:creator>Don&#8217;t Undo Someone Else&#8217;s Work at LauraFlorand.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Mar 2007 13:26:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] another related moot point*** is why authors don&#8217;t review. It comes up, you know. Readers say: &#8220;Oh, they&#8217;re just hypocrites, wanting everyone to think it&#8217;s all [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] another related moot point*** is why authors don&#8217;t review. It comes up, you know. Readers say: &#8220;Oh, they&#8217;re just hypocrites, wanting everyone to think it&#8217;s all [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Michele</title>
		<link>http://dearauthor.com/features/letters-of-opinion/should-authors-reach-out-and-touch-a-reader/#comment-24103</link>
		<dc:creator>Michele</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Mar 2007 01:01:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;em&gt;My feeds include readers and authors and agents - and TvSquad and Illicit Cultural Property (thanks to Michele)&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;

And when we come up with the same plots, we&#039;ll know how that happened!

I personally find blogs more useful for information than for socializing, but that&#039;s just my personality. Some people -- readers as well as authors -- are quiet rather than chatty, and lurking is the default setting.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p><em>My feeds include readers and authors and agents &#8211; and TvSquad and Illicit Cultural Property (thanks to Michele)</em></p></blockquote>
<p>And when we come up with the same plots, we&#8217;ll know how that happened!</p>
<p>I personally find blogs more useful for information than for socializing, but that&#8217;s just my personality. Some people &#8212; readers as well as authors &#8212; are quiet rather than chatty, and lurking is the default setting.</p>
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		<title>By: The Good, The Bad, The Unread &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Dear Bloggers&#8230;.</title>
		<link>http://dearauthor.com/features/letters-of-opinion/should-authors-reach-out-and-touch-a-reader/#comment-24070</link>
		<dc:creator>The Good, The Bad, The Unread &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Dear Bloggers&#8230;.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Mar 2007 22:15:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] &#8220;Self, if I am gonna make S _ _ _ _ do stupid human tricks&#8230; sybil would sooooooooo want to be here.&#8221; [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] &#8220;Self, if I am gonna make S _ _ _ _ do stupid human tricks&#8230; sybil would sooooooooo want to be here.&#8221; [...]</p>
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		<title>By: HelenKay Dimon &#187; Blog Archive &#187; When Life Intrudes</title>
		<link>http://dearauthor.com/features/letters-of-opinion/should-authors-reach-out-and-touch-a-reader/#comment-23991</link>
		<dc:creator>HelenKay Dimon &#187; Blog Archive &#187; When Life Intrudes</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Mar 2007 17:35:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] all that crap - yes, I said crap - going on, I decided it was a good time to jump over to Dear Author and engage in a chit chat. Damn that Jane! How am I supposed to lurk when she asks questions like, [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] all that crap &#8211; yes, I said crap &#8211; going on, I decided it was a good time to jump over to Dear Author and engage in a chit chat. Damn that Jane! How am I supposed to lurk when she asks questions like, [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Larissa Ione</title>
		<link>http://dearauthor.com/features/letters-of-opinion/should-authors-reach-out-and-touch-a-reader/#comment-23990</link>
		<dc:creator>Larissa Ione</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Mar 2007 17:14:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am a huge lurker.  I&#039;ll comment at friends&#039; blogs, but I generally don&#039;t comment anywhere else...though I do read several reader blogs.  I think the main reason I don&#039;t comment at reader blogs is that I don&#039;t want to look like, &quot;Hey, I&#039;m an author!  Read me!&quot;  And I&#039;m afraid that&#039;s how I&#039;ll come across...like the only reason I&#039;m commenting is to get my name out there.

Maybe someday I&#039;ll get over it, but for now, I&#039;m a comfortable lurker!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am a huge lurker.  I&#8217;ll comment at friends&#8217; blogs, but I generally don&#8217;t comment anywhere else&#8230;though I do read several reader blogs.  I think the main reason I don&#8217;t comment at reader blogs is that I don&#8217;t want to look like, &#8220;Hey, I&#8217;m an author!  Read me!&#8221;  And I&#8217;m afraid that&#8217;s how I&#8217;ll come across&#8230;like the only reason I&#8217;m commenting is to get my name out there.</p>
<p>Maybe someday I&#8217;ll get over it, but for now, I&#8217;m a comfortable lurker!</p>
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		<title>By: TeddyPig</title>
		<link>http://dearauthor.com/features/letters-of-opinion/should-authors-reach-out-and-touch-a-reader/#comment-23975</link>
		<dc:creator>TeddyPig</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Mar 2007 12:46:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ok I&#039;m taking notes...

How does one go about cultivating a rabid fan grrrl base?

I&#039;m thinking I need to work on this before demanding they buy hard covers to support my impending jet set writer life style.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ok I&#8217;m taking notes&#8230;</p>
<p>How does one go about cultivating a rabid fan grrrl base?</p>
<p>I&#8217;m thinking I need to work on this before demanding they buy hard covers to support my impending jet set writer life style.</p>
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		<title>By: Karen Scott</title>
		<link>http://dearauthor.com/features/letters-of-opinion/should-authors-reach-out-and-touch-a-reader/#comment-23970</link>
		<dc:creator>Karen Scott</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Mar 2007 07:49:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve read most of Shelly Laurenston&#039;s books, they are laugh out loud funny, Here Kitty, Kitty and G&#039;Fetch was hilarious.

I guess she counts as an auto-buy for me, who knew...

OK, enough of the mutual appreciation society, I&#039;ve a got a motorway to navigate!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve read most of Shelly Laurenston&#8217;s books, they are laugh out loud funny, Here Kitty, Kitty and G&#8217;Fetch was hilarious.</p>
<p>I guess she counts as an auto-buy for me, who knew&#8230;</p>
<p>OK, enough of the mutual appreciation society, I&#8217;ve a got a motorway to navigate!</p>
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		<title>By: Shelly Laurenston</title>
		<link>http://dearauthor.com/features/letters-of-opinion/should-authors-reach-out-and-touch-a-reader/#comment-23969</link>
		<dc:creator>Shelly Laurenston</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Mar 2007 04:58:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[quote comment=&quot;23967&quot;]Hey, any provocative knife fightin girl I back in a bar better have a mouth on her that won&#039;t quit.[/quote]

Well, Teddy Pig, I do talk a lot and my ex had told me I had a mouth that wouldn&#039;t quit. Twice. The first time in the early years of our marriage and then just before the divorce. I&#039;m relatively certain, however, that he meant it differently that last time. :-D


And geez, Jane, you know my schedule better than I do. I keep mixing up the months and trying not to have panic attacks. ;-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[quote comment="23967"]Hey, any provocative knife fightin girl I back in a bar better have a mouth on her that won&#8217;t quit.[/quote]</p>
<p>Well, Teddy Pig, I do talk a lot and my ex had told me I had a mouth that wouldn&#8217;t quit. Twice. The first time in the early years of our marriage and then just before the divorce. I&#8217;m relatively certain, however, that he meant it differently that last time. :-D</p>
<p>And geez, Jane, you know my schedule better than I do. I keep mixing up the months and trying not to have panic attacks. ;-)</p>
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		<title>By: TeddyPig</title>
		<link>http://dearauthor.com/features/letters-of-opinion/should-authors-reach-out-and-touch-a-reader/#comment-23967</link>
		<dc:creator>TeddyPig</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Mar 2007 03:48:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey, any provocative knife fightin girl I back in a bar better have a mouth on her that won&#039;t quit.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey, any provocative knife fightin girl I back in a bar better have a mouth on her that won&#8217;t quit.</p>
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		<title>By: Jane</title>
		<link>http://dearauthor.com/features/letters-of-opinion/should-authors-reach-out-and-touch-a-reader/#comment-23966</link>
		<dc:creator>Jane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Mar 2007 03:37:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Don&#039;t you know, Teddy, that Laurentson is big time now?  Here&#039;s her publication schedule:

Go Fetch!&#8212;Available from Samhain March &#039;07
Sun, Sand, Sex&#8212;Avaailable from Brava June &#039;07
Here Kitty, Kitty&#8212;Available from Samhain July &#039;07
The Mane Event&#8212;Available from Brava October &#039;07

Here Kitty Kitty used to be a Triskelion release but I remember that Pack Challenge was revised.  Woot.  Not too long until her Brava release.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Don&#8217;t you know, Teddy, that Laurentson is big time now?  Here&#8217;s her publication schedule:</p>
<p>Go Fetch!&#8212;Available from Samhain March &#8217;07<br />
Sun, Sand, Sex&#8212;Avaailable from Brava June &#8217;07<br />
Here Kitty, Kitty&#8212;Available from Samhain July &#8217;07<br />
The Mane Event&#8212;Available from Brava October &#8217;07</p>
<p>Here Kitty Kitty used to be a Triskelion release but I remember that Pack Challenge was revised.  Woot.  Not too long until her Brava release.</p>
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		<title>By: TeddyPig</title>
		<link>http://dearauthor.com/features/letters-of-opinion/should-authors-reach-out-and-touch-a-reader/#comment-23965</link>
		<dc:creator>TeddyPig</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Mar 2007 03:28:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;I can start a knife fight in a convent. It&#039;s a Long Island thing. I don&#039;t mean to.&quot;

Shelly,

As one of your old sailor gay fan boys waiting patiently for your werewolf sequel &quot;Go Fetch!&quot; after that delicious &quot;Pack Challenge&quot;. I&#039;ll take your back in the next bar fight. OK?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;I can start a knife fight in a convent. It&#8217;s a Long Island thing. I don&#8217;t mean to.&#8221;</p>
<p>Shelly,</p>
<p>As one of your old sailor gay fan boys waiting patiently for your werewolf sequel &#8220;Go Fetch!&#8221; after that delicious &#8220;Pack Challenge&#8221;. I&#8217;ll take your back in the next bar fight. OK?</p>
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		<title>By: Shelly Laurenston</title>
		<link>http://dearauthor.com/features/letters-of-opinion/should-authors-reach-out-and-touch-a-reader/#comment-23963</link>
		<dc:creator>Shelly Laurenston</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Mar 2007 01:52:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve only posted to one blog (this one), ever. And this is only my second time. Why? Time is part of it. Full time job as a managing editor with a boss I hate so much it drains me (right now I&#039;m home sick). The rest of the time I write or market or relax by watching one of the Law &amp; Order shows. The other reason is, I can start a knife fight in a convent. It&#039;s a Long Island thing. I don&#039;t mean to. I make what I think is a completely innocuous statement and wake up to all out war that I have to apologize for starting. I hate apologizing. To anybody. So, like a serial killer, I lurk. Read blogs when I can and focus on the one that make me laugh (Bam&#039;s, Karen S&#039;). 

I don&#039;t have my own blog and don&#039;t want one. Tragically, I&#039;m just not that interesting. And I rarely read author blogs for pretty much the same reason. Oh, wait. See? That was rude. 

Anyway, it took me 39 years, but I finally learned to follow my father&#039;s advice. A former Marine, he was a straight shooter and simply said, with that powerful knowledge that only comes with age, &quot;Maybe you should shut the hell up. Ever think about that?&quot;

*sigh* Some days I really miss that old bastard.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve only posted to one blog (this one), ever. And this is only my second time. Why? Time is part of it. Full time job as a managing editor with a boss I hate so much it drains me (right now I&#8217;m home sick). The rest of the time I write or market or relax by watching one of the Law &amp; Order shows. The other reason is, I can start a knife fight in a convent. It&#8217;s a Long Island thing. I don&#8217;t mean to. I make what I think is a completely innocuous statement and wake up to all out war that I have to apologize for starting. I hate apologizing. To anybody. So, like a serial killer, I lurk. Read blogs when I can and focus on the one that make me laugh (Bam&#8217;s, Karen S&#8217;). </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t have my own blog and don&#8217;t want one. Tragically, I&#8217;m just not that interesting. And I rarely read author blogs for pretty much the same reason. Oh, wait. See? That was rude. </p>
<p>Anyway, it took me 39 years, but I finally learned to follow my father&#8217;s advice. A former Marine, he was a straight shooter and simply said, with that powerful knowledge that only comes with age, &#8220;Maybe you should shut the hell up. Ever think about that?&#8221;</p>
<p>*sigh* Some days I really miss that old bastard.</p>
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		<title>By: I Didn&#8217;t Start It, Honest! &#171; Milady Insanity</title>
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		<dc:creator>I Didn&#8217;t Start It, Honest! &#171; Milady Insanity</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Mar 2007 00:03:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] by miladyinsanity on February 28th, 2007  So Jane took off and running from my RTB [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Nora Roberts</title>
		<link>http://dearauthor.com/features/letters-of-opinion/should-authors-reach-out-and-touch-a-reader/#comment-23954</link>
		<dc:creator>Nora Roberts</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Feb 2007 19:54:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I might comment favorably on a blog or mb over a book I particularly enjoyed. I&#039;d be very, very unlikely to comment unfavorably on one I didn&#039;t. It&#039;s just sticky. This would be a case--for me--where I keep the writer hat firmly on, and keep my reader&#039;s opinion to myself. My choice. 

Quite often I&#039;ve seen comments after a dust-up, a miscue, involving a writer from some readers stating outright they would never by that author again due to her on-line comments and/or behavior. Their choice. 

But the reality exists. Commentary can have consequences. I believe I made my first comment here after a reader referred to me behaving badly (and I had) years before on a mb. Long-lived, indeed. The reader neglected to give the circumstances--only that I behaved badly. And also didn&#039;t mention (or know, apparently) that I had copped to the mistake and apologized for it on that mb, and privately to its owner. I&#039;m talking years ago, and that incident still pops out to slap at me--even though I took responsibility and apologized in the same forum. 

It&#039;s not hard to see why some authors elect not to comment or participate in the blogging community. Not every reader will separate the author&#039;s on-line personality from the books she writes. 

One of the common threads of the sites I enjoy visiting and commenting on is the intelligent back and forth discussion, the humor, the sharing of opinions between writers and readers. Another common thread would be I&#039;ve always felt welcome on these sites.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I might comment favorably on a blog or mb over a book I particularly enjoyed. I&#8217;d be very, very unlikely to comment unfavorably on one I didn&#8217;t. It&#8217;s just sticky. This would be a case&#8211;for me&#8211;where I keep the writer hat firmly on, and keep my reader&#8217;s opinion to myself. My choice. </p>
<p>Quite often I&#8217;ve seen comments after a dust-up, a miscue, involving a writer from some readers stating outright they would never by that author again due to her on-line comments and/or behavior. Their choice. </p>
<p>But the reality exists. Commentary can have consequences. I believe I made my first comment here after a reader referred to me behaving badly (and I had) years before on a mb. Long-lived, indeed. The reader neglected to give the circumstances&#8211;only that I behaved badly. And also didn&#8217;t mention (or know, apparently) that I had copped to the mistake and apologized for it on that mb, and privately to its owner. I&#8217;m talking years ago, and that incident still pops out to slap at me&#8211;even though I took responsibility and apologized in the same forum. </p>
<p>It&#8217;s not hard to see why some authors elect not to comment or participate in the blogging community. Not every reader will separate the author&#8217;s on-line personality from the books she writes. </p>
<p>One of the common threads of the sites I enjoy visiting and commenting on is the intelligent back and forth discussion, the humor, the sharing of opinions between writers and readers. Another common thread would be I&#8217;ve always felt welcome on these sites.</p>
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		<title>By: Kristie(J)</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kristie(J)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Feb 2007 19:26:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>One thing that should be noted about authors posting on readers blogs - I don&#039;t know if it has or not - I&#039;m at work and I have this pretty small so I may have missed something - I have had a few authors post on mine on an unrelated topic.  I was kind of thrilled and when their newest release came out I made a point of buying it.  Now should I read it (haven&#039;t yet) and like it, you can be sure I will recommend it.
So it doesn&#039;t necessarily have to be a comment on a review.  It could be on a related subject or something else entirely.  Just the fact that the fact that they are paying attention to readers can be enough to do some good PR.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One thing that should be noted about authors posting on readers blogs &#8211; I don&#8217;t know if it has or not &#8211; I&#8217;m at work and I have this pretty small so I may have missed something &#8211; I have had a few authors post on mine on an unrelated topic.  I was kind of thrilled and when their newest release came out I made a point of buying it.  Now should I read it (haven&#8217;t yet) and like it, you can be sure I will recommend it.<br />
So it doesn&#8217;t necessarily have to be a comment on a review.  It could be on a related subject or something else entirely.  Just the fact that the fact that they are paying attention to readers can be enough to do some good PR.</p>
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